From the day our words crossed

Remembering things that never happened

I felt my soul smiling inside

Enchanted by the life ahead

Never again will we be apart

Dear friend.



Lying mirror

you inherited his eyes

his sweet smile

even his smell

you got his love for daydreaming

and his way of dancing with words


but your face is not the same

he’s absent, lost, sad

your face is not the same

he’s the father, you’re the son


your face is yours.





Your ocean




Your kisses always tasted too salty for me

as if you had more tears

than love to give


But now I know you have ocean water

instead of blood

dark secrets hidden under your soft skin.


you can’t run from me


I feel your depth as I touch your lips

My own death as I drown in your saliva

searching for the truth

your truth

your mysteries


I’m a teardrop in your high tide

Looking for your ocean

A sea of promises and lies

In your perfectly blue shade of brown


And as your sweat runs through my body

I feel your waves

Crying for forgiveness


Can’t you see?

I am also on my knees





Feminist or womanist

Am I a feminist or a womanist? The student needs to know if I do men occasionally and primarily, am I a lesbian? Tongue tied up in my cheek, I attempt to respond with some honesty. Well, this business of Dykes and Dykery, I tell her, it’s often messy. With social tensions as they are, you never quite know what you’re getting.

Girls who are only straight at night, hardcore butches be sporting dresses between 9 & 6 every day. Sometimes she is a he, trapped by the limitations of our imaginations. Primarily, I tell her, I am concerned about young women who are raped on college campuses, in bars, after poetry readings like this one, in bars. Bruised lip and broken heart, you will forgive her if she does not come forward with the truth immediately, for when she does, it is she who will stand trial as damaged goods. Everyone will say she asked for it, dressed as she was, she must have wanted it. The words will knock about in her head: ” Harlot, slut, tease, loose woman” — some people can not handle a woman on the loose. You know those women in pinstriped shirts and silk ties, You know those women in blood-red stiletto heels and short skirts. These women make New York City the most interesting place. And while we’re on the subject of diversity, Asia is not one big race, and there’s not one big country called ‘The Islands’, and no, I am not from there.

There are a hundred ways to slip between the cracks of our not so credible cultural assumptions about race and religion. Most people are suprised that my father is Chinese. Like there’s some kind of preconditioned look for the half-Chinese, lesbian poet who used to be Catholic, but now believes in dreams.

Let’s get real sister-boy in the double-x hooded sweatshirt. That blonde-haired, blue-eyed Jesus in the Vatican ain’t right. That motherfucker was Jewish, not white. Christ was a middle-eastern rasta man who ate grapes in the company of prostitutes and he drank wine more than he drank water. Born of the spirit, the disciples loved him in the flesh.

But the discourse is not on those of us who identify as gay or lesbian or even straight. The state needs us to be either a clear left or right. Those in the middle get caught in the cross — fire away at the other side. If you are not for us, then you must be against us. If you are not for us, then you must be against us. People get scared enough, they pick a team. Be it for Buddha or Krishna or Christ, I believe God is that place between belief and what you name it. I believe holy is what you do when there is nothing between your actions and the truth.

The truth is I’m afraid to draw your black lines around me, I’m not always pale in the middle, I come in too many flavors for one fucking spoon. I am never one thing or the other. At night I am everything I fear, tears and sorrows, black windows and muffled screams. In the morning, I am all I ever want to be: rain and laughter, bare footprints and invisible seams, always without breath or definition. I claim every single dawn, for yesterday is simply what I was, and tomorrow even that will be gone.

Dear hero

Don’t try to save me.
Let there be darkness and sorrow,
Let there be death and pain,
I can only be beautiful that way.

I see grace in this tears
And power in this blood stains.
Hurt is my best friend,
The only one who truly understands.

I no longer aim to live, I survive.
Because life taught me to pursue this scars.
And there’s not enough love in this world to fix my heart.

So, don’t try to save me.

Although your cape feels like lustful silk,
And your eyes are one mile away from Heaven,
I’ve climbed the mountains myself,
Barefooted and naked.

Don’t try to save me.

Let there be loneliness and silence.
Let there be insanity and misery.
Let there be fear, wander, loss…
Let it be. Let me be.

I only know beauty this way.